13 THINGS LADIES SHOULD BEAR IN MIND WHEN GOING INTO A RELATIONSHIP/ MARRIAGE

1. Guys love to marry an independent and Matured lady. So, instead of sitting
there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would
take you out of the house wife category.
2. Never let the sweet talks of guys deceive you. Most times guys use it to lure
girls just to go between your legs and thereafter become Nigeria’s Usain Bolt.
3. Remove the mentality from your mind that guys will keep springing up to
approach you. No matter how beautiful and elegant you may be, the bitter truth is
that the older you get by the day, the less guy toasters you will have. # old cargo.
4. Playing 'too' hard to get is the worst thing you should ever think of let alone
doing. Although it is not advisable to fall cheap for guys, but remember, nothing
lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies
looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE.
5. Never extort money or material things from a guy you don't love. Guys always
have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total 'PAID'
STRANGERS. BE CAREFUL. If you are too demanding also, you may piss the guy
off.
6. Never be deceived that you can trap a guy through sex or getting pregnant for
him. Far far far, foul. A man will always return to his woman who even sex-
starves him for years provided he loves and trust her. You can never win a man
over with your body or pregnancy.
7. If all you take to a relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY or other
material things from the guy, please don't complain if all he demands from you is
your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer other than sex, and I bet
you, he will exploit it to the fullest and later take you to the cleaners. # using and
dumping things.
8. Don't be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl. They will
say that same thing to an 80-year old woman they want to get intimate with.
9. A guy taking you to the SILVER-BIRD, FAST FOOD, MALL AND EVENTS AT
CONFERENCE CENTER/NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you. If he
doesn't care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER, then you are just his
'BED MATE' and nothing else.
10. If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house
and do his laundry, then just know you are his "executive house help".
11. If he avoids meeting your family and close friends, then it is an obvious sign
he is just playing games with you.
12. If the only places he doesn't frown when you enter are his bedroom and
kitchen then know you aren't welcome.
13. Let me just drop this least but important hint, always be interested and care
about your guy’s future. This will help to re-assure him that you are there to stay
and not just to hit and run. Encourage him to save for the future. Make out time
to discuss his financial standing with him, how much he earns, how much he
saves and how much he invests. At the beginning, he may be skeptical to discuss
his financial standing with you to avoid being exploited by you. But if he sees the
sincerity and honesty in you, I bet you, he will tell you everything. Never be too
demanding because it sends a message to him that all you are interested in is
what you can get from him. Believe me, when he developes this mindset about
you, I assure you, you will come out the worst of it.