» Ten Things You Should Hide From Your Spouse

10. Facebook password
A meager reason like the password of your
social networking account can create problems
big enough to make you both drift your ways
apart. It is advisable not to share you
Facebook, Orkut, Skype or Twitter with your
partner. Preserving your password from them
will deny them complete access to your to your
privacy anytime. You never know they may
misinterpret things. Rather the better idea is if
you both sit together sometime with your
account logged in before you and you
discussing about your online activity in your
own words. A little hiding when a lot has been
already revealed is not a problem at all
especially when it can save a lot of
misunderstandings.
9. Your daily frustration
Tired after day’s work? Argument with mom or
fight with a friend or had a hard time your boss
in the office, need not come out with everything
in front of your partner. They may be your best
friend and you end up feeling great after
discussing your problems with them and even
though they are ok with it but the truth is they
are human like you and you might be troubling
them with such petty issues of yours. You can’t
run away from the fact that they don’t have
solution for each of your problem. So it’s not at
all a good thing to remove your sack of
problem from your head and place it on their
shoulder. Avoid troubling them with all your
daily frustrations; make an attempt to keep
some of the tensions to yourself. Talking about
problems more often can create negative
impact on your relationship.
8. Money can be a trouble honey
With both the partners working the probability
is quite high that you both may have an
unequal salary. If you are the one contributing
more to the family income, don’t highlight this
all the time. Do not talk about the incentives or
increments every time you receive them. This
will not only drag your partner under an
inferiority complex but chances are that they
may end up pushing all financial
responsibilities of the family at your side. Or the
other big mistake people commit is disclosing
about debts in front of their partner. They may
go crazy thinking that you people have gone
bankrupt putting unnecessary burden on your
sweetheart. You might tell them about your
debt when you have cleared them all. Till then
it’s better to hide it from them.
7. Your friend knows it all?
This one’s a big no- no. You are in the habit of
sharing the minutest details of anything and
everything with that childhood best friend of
yours but look around, your partner may not
like it. They may feel your private life to be
exposed and can feel that you treat them as
less important than that friend of yours. So the
best thing is to keep the secrets shared
between friends a secret. You don’t want your
partner to move out embarrassed as soon as
that friend of your steps in, right?
6. Hating their loved ones
So do you find their mom troublesome? Or his
dad or siblings or friends irritating..? But
shhhh…. Keep your mouth sealed. Never ever
blurt this out in front of your partner even if your
dislike is towards their… dog. How can they
ever like that you don’t find fault with
something/ someone they love so dearly.
Moreover it will create an impact on them that
you don’t approve of their judgments.
5. Aren’t bygones, bygones yet?
Past is the thing which can never be changed
but can always create a problem. Are you still
nursing feelings for your ex? It’s one thing that
you have told them everything about your past
relationship but never ever tell them that you
still feel for your ex. It will be very hard for them
to tolerate this. Don’t discuss that kiss which
went longer than you thought or things you did
for your ex. Never say it in front of your partner
if any of their actions resemble your ex or don’t
talk about anything which you liked about your
ex. Bury all the things about your permanently,
very deep under the ground so that your partner
doesn’t come face to face with them ever.
4. Keep your secret a secret
Not all of us have a past free from scratches.
There may be things you don’t like in your past.
Never ever disclose any such thing, any activity
or about any past experience, to them which
you yourself are guilty about. For if they too
mistook it you will have no way out to defend
yourself and you will be faulty in their eyes
forever. If you will make any attempt to defend
yourself, it will further deteriorate you in their
eyes as they might think you to be two-faced
or your story as an attempt to gain their
sympathy.
3. The huge expectations
This one comes naturally even before you
entered into any relationship. Since a long time
you must have been dreaming about getting
married, having that big house with a king-size
bedroom or starting a family, but keep in mind
you have to keep these hopes and aspiration
under the wrap. People often tend to give vent
to their aspirations very early in their
relationship which can usually scare them off.
Having too many expectations is always wrong
but revealing them all to your partner is very
dangerous. They may feel held back under that
mountain of your expectations. You want to
enjoy your life with them but does it have to be
at the cost of any burden on them?
2. Faults in you
It’s better to hide your faults from. Stop
nagging about your increased weight or hair
fall in front of them. Make a note first of all they
are with you because they are ok with the
things you are talking about, and that’s why
they are with you. May be they haven’t found
anything wrong with you and you are only
drawing their attention towards it. It may be an
attempt from your side to reassure yourself that
they love and appreciate you no matter what,
but you might be giving them a reason to look
down upon you.
1. Secret admirations
Now you must be smart enough to point this
one and must have been waiting for such a
point to come up. It’s always advised to keep
your secret crush a secret from your partner. If
you can’t resist yourself to catch a glimpse of
that girl/ boy in your college or enjoy the
company of that colleague in your office or love
to talk to one of his/ her friends, need not tell
about this to them. It will make them feel
jealous. No matter how good you both
understand each other it will make them feel
insecure at some point of time. You never know
that this might sow a seed of suspicion in their
mind that you are on the track of cheating upon
them. Will you like if your partner is spying on
you?