How to Know When He is Done With the Relationship.

First of all, we must agree that not all relationships end up in 'I do'. Many
actually end in 'I don't'. If a man no longer wants to 'do' with you, you will do
well, my beloved sister, to learn to let him go. Not that you can stop him anyway,
but it will be easier on you if you hold a meeting with your heart and head and all
of you resolve not to create a scene over his quitting the relationship. Here are
the ways to know that you are no longer holding the title of 'fiance' or 'girlfriend'
to your man;
1. He will stop asking for elaborate explanations about your movements. If he
used to check on you three times between the time you left the office and the
time you got home, and all he asks these days is, 'how was your day?', and he
nicely changes the subject when you attempt to give him the full gist, let the
romance light in your head move from green to amber. If you tell him you have a
dinner to attend after work and all he says is okay without asking who is hosting
the dinner, the venue and what you are wearing, you are surely losing grip of him.
As far as he is concerned, you can go and jump into the sea from the third
mainland bridge.
2. Another red sign that he is done with you is if he stops giving you elaborate
explanations about his life, his job, career, finances and his movements.For
instance, you see him with a girl, and all he says to you is just 'hello' or 'how are
you' and then tells you that he will see you or call you on phone later. Note; he
did not introduce the girl or tell the girl who you are, my dear, let it sink deep into
your head that you are no longer as important and precious as you used to be to
him.
3. If you have already met some of his family members, put your thinking cap on
if you sense unease among his family members whenever you visit them. Watch
out for the smiles that do not reach their eyes, the pitying looks and the almost
audible sign of relief when you tell them you are leaving. Poor folks! They like you,
but your man has introduced another girl to them and told them that he was
done with you.
4. When a man begins to make himself unavailable and unapproachable, he is
telling the woman who thinks she is still in his life that the deal is off. If you were
spending the weekends together and now there is always something keeping him
busy every weekend, don't ignore the alarm ringing behind your left ear. You want
to go to his house and see things for yourself? Great idea, you will most likely
find what you are looking for, your replacement.
5. If your man who once upon a time, could not keep his hands and eyes off you
behind every closed door - office, car, bedroom, kitchen, bathroom doors, suddenly
looks at you in lingerie, adjusts his glasses and returns to his laptop, ipad or
television, you are on your way to the dump site, most likely. I am assuming both
of you had a great sex life, though not advocated here of course. Now, he sees
you in the shower and he is still walking normal without adjusting his zipper or
joining you in the bathtub, aaahhhh? There is surely a cause for alarm, believe
me.
6. He used to call you 10 times a day, and now it has dwindled to one call a day
or fizzled out entirely, and when you call, he rarely picks or tells you he is busy,
my beloved sister, you are a 'dumpee' waiting for certification. That man has
moved on and I suggest you move on with your life too, yes.
Please be on the lookout, and adjust yourself so that you won't join the
bandwagon of most girls who say, 'he used me and dumped me'.
Till next time.