25 WAYS TO TEST WHETHER YOU TRULY LOVE THAT GUY OR LADY.

Although reading this piece may be painstaking, but if you are able to endure the
pain and read it to the end, you will be glad you did. So shall we go? Here are the
tests:
Attraction test: Is he/she attracted to the content or container, i.e, is it about
your person or your body.
Purpose test: Will the relationship be temporal or forever, what exactly is the
basis of your love.
Vision test: Does your vision unite you or divide you, do you compliment him and
does he add values to you.
Activity test: Are you planning for tomorrow or all you care about is the
excitement of today. Do you see a future together, are you guarding it or
destroying it
Caring test: What does he care about, your life or body, your present or future? Is
the care genuine or to get through in between your legs (for the girls especially).
Longevity test: is it for now or forever.
Starting test: How did it all started, was is based on friendship, infatuation or
lust.
Divine relationship test: Are you together in Christ or together in club.
Interest test: Is he warm, tender and gentle or harsh rude and arrogant.
Maturity test: How wise are both of you, can your wisdom build a home and will
your understanding establish it.
Effect test: Are you a better person or worse off.
Excitement test: Are you happy in the relationship or are you enduring the
relationship.
Marriage test: can you spend the rest of your life with him/her. Can you marry
him/her?
Self-emotions test: can both of you control your feelings and urge to feel each
other's bodies (you can guess what I mean by that).
Peace test: Is there peace of mind or you are always troubled while in the
relationship
Other relationship: What is the view of your family and friends? Do they know
about the relationship, are they in support of it.
Trust test: can you open up to him/her saying nothing but the truth at every point
in time.
Distance test: can you love him/her in his/her absence
Time test: Is the love growing strong or waxing cold, can it survive the test of
time.
Pluralistic test: Do you see each other as you and me or we and us
Character test: Can you cope with his/her flaws and can you live with his/her
weaknesses
Foundation test: can you present him to the world as your husband or wife.
Association test: Who are the people surrounding your relationship
Commitment test: Do you spend quality time with each other, are you there when
things are not going fine for him/her, or do you abandon him/her in such
situations.
Medical test: Is your genotype compatible with his/hers. Is he/she medically fit
and ok for you?
But let me ask this question, how many times have you prayed for him/her. How
concerned are you about his/her career, and in what way have you contributed to
his/her career progress.
Use all these tests and weigh your relationship today. Make amends where
necessary. Where you went wrong, be humble enough to ask for forgiveness, and
stop claiming right all the time. Commit your relationship into the hands of God.
Be sincere and dedicated to it. I assure you, you will surely have a blissful and
long lasting relationship, in Jesus name, Amen.